Some days, the best thing I do is nothing at all.
Not in a lazy way. Not scrolling, not zoning out in front of a screen. I mean actually doing nothing. Stepping outside, standing in the yard, sitting on the steps, and just being there. No goal. No productivity. No reason other than it feels right.
It’s strange how uncomfortable that makes people.
We live in a world where everything has to be justified. Rest has to be earned. Silence has to be explained. Even hobbies turn into something we feel pressure to monetize or optimize. If you’re not producing something, improving something, or documenting something, it can feel like you’re wasting time.
I don’t see it that way anymore.
Doing nothing, for me, usually looks very simple. I’ll step outside and listen to the wind move through the trees. I’ll watch the light change across the yard. Sometimes I just sit and stare at the sky, thinking about nothing in particular. Other times, thoughts come and go without me trying to chase them or fix them.
There’s no phone in my hand. No music. No podcast. Just quiet.
And in that quiet, something settles.
I think we’ve lost the ability to be still without feeling guilty. We’re always bracing for the next thing — the next task, the next obligation, the next problem to solve. Living in a constant state of urgency does something to you. It makes everything feel heavier than it needs to be.
Stillness reminds me that not everything is an emergency.
This idea ties closely to why I’m drawn to a simpler life. A life with fewer distractions, fewer demands, and fewer things constantly pulling at my attention. Not because modern life is evil, but because it’s loud. And I don’t think humans were meant to live at full volume all the time.
You don’t need land or a homestead to experience this. You don’t need to escape to the woods or move off-grid. Sometimes it’s as simple as stepping outside your door and allowing yourself to exist without a purpose for a few minutes.
As a parent, this has mattered more than I expected. Kids notice when you slow down. They feel it. Some of my favorite moments aren’t big outings or planned activities — they’re quiet ones. Standing outside together. Digging in the dirt. Watching clouds drift by without needing to name or explain anything.
There’s something grounding about that.
Doing nothing won’t get you ahead in the traditional sense. It won’t earn you points or money or praise. But it gives you something else — clarity, patience, and a sense of being rooted where you are.
In a world that constantly demands more, choosing to pause feels almost rebellious.
For me, doing nothing isn’t a lack of direction. It’s a reminder that I’m already here.
– Just a note from the yard.